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Nostalgia

  Nostalgia paints a smile on the stony face of the past.~  Mason Cooley This emotion can be related to people, places, or time. When we look at the people who have complaints in the form of nostalgia, we can say that they are naïve, perfectionist, loyal, and extremely conscientious. Since people with these characteristics are cognitively prone to depression, it is often possible to see them in a depressive mood. It would be beneficial to manage the feeling of nostalgia, which the ancients defined as a type of melancholy, with cognitive interventions. Why do we miss the ending relationship? We never focus on the bleak things we experience in a relationship that ends. We cannot remember those bad memories, and we reject them as if they never happened. Since our brain only guides us to the good memories we live, we remember everything as if it were perfect. And here is another important point: We don't miss that person, miss the profile of the person he might be. Sometimes we ev...

Hate Crimes

What is hatred? Some think that hatred is the opposite of love. If this is not the case, what is that? Hatred burst by two base emotions  of affection  and aggression. Why we hate? The people have from expressing themselves prevented, acting naturally, and experiencing their feelings in childhood they approach life full of hate. Although many people love very much, it feeds feelings of anger and hatred, thinking that the effort, time, and love spent for that love is ill-spent and that the effort and expectations that he has not been able to get in return cause him to feel anger and hatred.  As life becomes intractable, one begins to perceive it as an obstacle rather than accepting it. The constant feeling of frustration, bare fact dulling the ability to love, can also evolve into hate. When peoples incorporate a feeling of hate, he cannot love themselves and others. As time passes, he begins to experience the distress more and more deeply. When the individual hates someon...

Love Knot

Why do we fall in love? Philosopher Plato says that love may be a desire to unite with the division and the sense of loneliness in our being. The thing which will complete someone is that the person he loves. · One of the explanations to fall infatuated is compatibility. With the opposite person; If you're compatible in terms of thought, age, education, and even location, you will want to urge to understand the person better. As a result, love can develop. Compatibility also represents the compatibility of two people in understanding one another. · The second important point we'd like to grasp about the scientific background of affection is another incontestable fact that could seem stupid to some. Although this fact is simple, it's still stubbornly distorted in society and presented as "real": Love is certainly not a sense associated with the heart like all other emotions. Love only occurs within the brain. · Another experiment has revealed the effect of pheromon...

Barnum Effect

Do you believe in fortune-telling or zodiac signs? When you read it, did you say how did he guess correctly? Astrologers and mediums are masters at using the Barnum Effect. It gets its name from showman and businessman Phineas Taylor Barnum. He remembered for promoting celebrated hoaxes. One day a scientist named Bertram Forer experimented with his students. He said that he determined their personality analysis and wrote it down. He gave them their paper and asked them to rate it between 0 and 5 points. He gave them the same transcript. As a result, the average score was 4,26. You have a few a friend in need. You prefer change and do not like to feel limited in what you can do. You can be overly harsh on yourself and very critical. You have an intense desire to get people to accept and like you. Sometimes you can be loud, outgoing, and a people person, but other times you can be quiet, shy, and reserved. You have unreal dreams. You are having problems with a friend or relative. How tru...

Fear no colors

What is the powerful feeling than fear of failure?  The answer to this question is in black and white.  Firstly, we should know the meaning of fear to find the answer to this question. There are some types to fear, as traumatic or psychological. Fear can not be confused with self-dense reveal by the effects on certain events. After a while, your anxiety will become nonsense. When you will older, you will feel sorry for some things you did not do. The only way to deal with the fair of failure is to address it head-on. Fear avoids you getting risk. What does it mean without risk? If you run, you will fall. If you stop, you will lose.  The answer is love. Why are you afraid of death? Because you love life. Why are you afraid of failure? Because you love victory. Do you know why children are happy? They are not afraid of falling, burning, or losing. Their love is intense than their fear. Remember, fear can not redound anything, but love can. Don't allow your fear to overcome ...

Quotes. Art or Love?

Hide your secret even from the closet friend; learn to be silent.~ Beethoven The music isn't notes but in the silence between.~ Mozart I can't write poetically, for I am poet. I can't make fine artistic phrases that cast light and shadow, for I am no painter. I can neither by signs nor by pantomime express my thoughts and feelings for I am no dancer, but I can by tones, for I am a musician.~ Mozart I hear your voice in all of the world's noise.~ Paul Eluard You are what you think. Your emotions are the slaves to your thoughts, and you are the slave to your emotions.~ Elizabeth Gilbert We don't fall in love with people because they're good people. We fall in love with people whose darkness we recognize. You can fall in love with a person for all of the reasons, but that kind of love can still fall apart. But when you fall in love with a person because your monsters have found a home in them- that's kind of love that owns your skin and bones. Love, I am convin...

Vincent Van Gogh-What is synesthesia?

Colors were reflections of emotions and senses for him. His hands, mind, and eyes were not willing to deal with nature or what others saw clearly. For him, the world flowed in a different rhythm; they had different perspectives, different forms that they would shape on their own. Vincent Van Gogh's experience was something that is the world his eyes saw and his ears heard was constantly chaotic and disturbing. He felt that the world was just a reflection on his madness. He had synesthesia. It isn't disease, it is a neurological condition where communication between the senses is different from normal, and in this case, people see sounds taste or hear the contours. But today we know that synesthesia is a special kind of glasses that allows people to witness fantastic realities.💛