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Nostalgia

  Nostalgia paints a smile on the stony face of the past.~  Mason Cooley This emotion can be related to people, places, or time. When we look at the people who have complaints in the form of nostalgia, we can say that they are naïve, perfectionist, loyal, and extremely conscientious. Since people with these characteristics are cognitively prone to depression, it is often possible to see them in a depressive mood. It would be beneficial to manage the feeling of nostalgia, which the ancients defined as a type of melancholy, with cognitive interventions. Why do we miss the ending relationship? We never focus on the bleak things we experience in a relationship that ends. We cannot remember those bad memories, and we reject them as if they never happened. Since our brain only guides us to the good memories we live, we remember everything as if it were perfect. And here is another important point: We don't miss that person, miss the profile of the person he might be. Sometimes we even mi

Hate Crimes

What is hatred? Some think that hatred is the opposite of love. If this is not the case, what is that? Hatred burst by two base emotions  of affection  and aggression. Why we hate? The people have from expressing themselves prevented, acting naturally, and experiencing their feelings in childhood they approach life full of hate. Although many people love very much, it feeds feelings of anger and hatred, thinking that the effort, time, and love spent for that love is ill-spent and that the effort and expectations that he has not been able to get in return cause him to feel anger and hatred.  As life becomes intractable, one begins to perceive it as an obstacle rather than accepting it. The constant feeling of frustration, bare fact dulling the ability to love, can also evolve into hate. When peoples incorporate a feeling of hate, he cannot love themselves and others. As time passes, he begins to experience the distress more and more deeply. When the individual hates someone, the opposit

Love Knot

Why do we fall in love? Philosopher Plato says that love may be a desire to unite with the division and the sense of loneliness in our being. The thing which will complete someone is that the person he loves. · One of the explanations to fall infatuated is compatibility. With the opposite person; If you're compatible in terms of thought, age, education, and even location, you will want to urge to understand the person better. As a result, love can develop. Compatibility also represents the compatibility of two people in understanding one another. · The second important point we'd like to grasp about the scientific background of affection is another incontestable fact that could seem stupid to some. Although this fact is simple, it's still stubbornly distorted in society and presented as "real": Love is certainly not a sense associated with the heart like all other emotions. Love only occurs within the brain. · Another experiment has revealed the effect of pheromon

Barnum Effect

Do you believe in fortune-telling or zodiac signs? When you read it, did you say how did he guess correctly? Astrologers and mediums are masters at using the Barnum Effect. It gets its name from showman and businessman Phineas Taylor Barnum. He remembered for promoting celebrated hoaxes. One day a scientist named Bertram Forer experimented with his students. He said that he determined their personality analysis and wrote it down. He gave them their paper and asked them to rate it between 0 and 5 points. He gave them the same transcript. As a result, the average score was 4,26. You have a few a friend in need. You prefer change and do not like to feel limited in what you can do. You can be overly harsh on yourself and very critical. You have an intense desire to get people to accept and like you. Sometimes you can be loud, outgoing, and a people person, but other times you can be quiet, shy, and reserved. You have unreal dreams. You are having problems with a friend or relative. How tru